My boyfriend has turned to porn because he’s uncomfortable with my weight


DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend doesn’t like having sex with me because he’s uncomfortable with my weight.

He has turned to watching porn instead.

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My boyfriend has turned to watching porn and it’s tearing me apartCredit: Getty Images – Getty

I am 24 and he is 25. I would say I am only a little overweight, but I am trying to do something about it.

Plus, I have blonde hair but he keeps searching for girls with dark hair – his whole internet history is teens, stepsisters, daughters with chocolate and jet black hair.

The issue is I am not prepared to dye mine to suit him.

It is tearing me apart and has ruined lovemaking for me – all I can think about is him watching some woman who doesn’t look at all like me on porn sites.

The trust has gone and I feel as though he is cheating on me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Of course you feel hurt and rejected when he’s looking at porn. He’s making you miserable.

If you’re overweight, lose it. Not because of your boyfriend, but because it would be great for your wellbeing.

And don’t dye your hair just to suit him.

Make it clear to him he is damaging your confidence and your relationship.

My resource pack Pornography Worry? will help.

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